If he's not man enough to talk to your wali, he's not man enough to talk to you. If he's not ready to meet your family, he's not ready to be a part of your family.
wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree, and give her the status of a "wife" and not just "girlfriend"..
They say that :”true love is when you wish that Allah is pleased with the one you love”
Think about it sister : our parents love us, so they always pray that Allah be pleased with us
When a husband loves his wife, he prays that Allah is pleased with her so they will be together in Jannah
So dear sister, do you think your bf really loves you?!
If he really does, then he wouldn’t let you face Allah’s anger by having this forbidden relationship
And he wouldn’t let you whisper any love word to him unless it is in Halal !